For real this time, I’ll do what’s best for me because no one is going to look out for me and my family.
They’ll judge me no matter what. But I am choosing not to care. If the relationship is true and meant to be, they’ll understand what I’m doing because they’re doing the same thing. If they still insist on judging, I will assume they’re living to be judged; trying to please others instead of doing right by themselves. It’ll come back to them.
I think everyone comes to this conclusion at some point, right? Some probably way too late. I’m starting now. For real this time.